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Our sex life is boring - help!

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Question - (25 September 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 25 September 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *ndy15243 writes:

Basically ive been with my girlfriend for 1 year and a half and were both only 18 so its early times still. we recently got our first house and everything is great.

However our sex life is extremely boring she just hasn't got any sex drive anymore and i don't know what to do i make every effort to spice it up but it falls on deaf ears, nothing works. if we do have sex its missionary position with no foreplay and she will only ever do it when shes off work which is generally when im in work, its really affecting me as im currently under alot of stress.

so can anyone please help??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2008):

Dear Poster

I have empathy with your frustration.

Have you discussed your feelings with your partner? Do you discuss your sexual needs, wants, likes and dislikes with each other?

I agree with "cupidguy" maybe it is time the two of you learn to discover each other on a different level of intimacy or on a more sensual level.

Herewith some links with information that could be helpful:

http://health.mweb.co.za/sex/Problems/1253-1264.asp

http://health.mweb.co.za/sex/A_sexual_frame_of_mind/1253-2445.asp

http://health.mweb.co.za/sex/Gourmet_sex/1253-2443.asp

I hope this is of assistance to you.

Best wishes and keep SMILING.

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