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writes:My boyfriend and I have been going out for 5 months now, sex was fine at first however he started having trouble keeping an erection during sex after 3 months. However, foreplay is not a problem. I confronted him about the erection problem and he brushed it aside. We haven't had sex for 2 months now and I confronted him about that too but he brushed that aside as well. It has got to the point now where he won't even kiss me anymore. The little confidence I had has been crushed because of it and I feel so depressed and ugly now. I'm also 80% sure he's cheating. What should I do?...
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010): You say you've confronted him twice now. Confrontation is a strong word. He's having trouble being intimate. If you have no real proof that he's cheating how about you try talking to him and figure out whats going on in his head. Communication is the cornerstone of any relationship. Many men have trouble vocalising their emotions so be patient and listen to him not the conclusions you've already come to. Coming on all confrontational isn't going to help anyone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2010): It doesn't mean he's cheating. Making he's lacking confidence about it that's why he's brushing it aside.
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