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writes: Hi there,My husband always wanted to get married, then we eloped to get married, but he showed no interest on the day. I felt all alone, had lots of arguments while there and he was acting really cold and unsupportive. When I returned home he rushed to tell everyone, but we told all that he organised everything and it was all a surprise. All thought he was a hero and I thought he was a prat. Spent the 1st few months arguing and crying myself to sleep. Now unsure how to proceed as things are comming to a head, don't know where to go next, whether to take a break or divorce. Any advice or correspondence would be greatly appreciated. Many thanks.........
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2006): He sounds to me that he did not want to be married but he loved the idea or fantasy of being married and was just going with the flow.But he was a prat to brag about the elopement especially when he lied about how It went about. You have not felt loved by this guy since being married to him. He just likes to put on a show for his family and friends. Your husband is living in a dream world instead of the real world. Was he like this before you met him? Was there any clues that he behaved in this way? If you think this relationship can be saved then both of you go to for marriage counselling. If not separate and move on with you life.
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reader, Angel ron +, writes (17 April 2006):
 at the day of the day it is upto you both to decide what to do but I would reccommend marriage guidance counseilling or going to a family mediation coucnseilling that often helps.Take care ronxxxx
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