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*aisy92
writes: i have been with my girlfriend for over a year now. and i really love her but the problem is that she gets really jealous. for example she wont let me talk to several people. and one time i had this best friend who was male, and we had been best friends for about 6 months then told me that he had strong feelings for me. my girlfriend found out and wasnt very happy. from then on she would be angry with me if i talked to him, and said it hurt. so for her i wouldnt. but if i am honest i am very jealous too (just not as bad as her) i hate it when other people flirt with her and secretly i get very jealous if she goes out with friends, although i wont show that. but our jealousy is causing problems, it makes us argue lots and i simply dont know how to come around it, any advice?
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reader, daisy92 +, writes (17 August 2010):
daisy92 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou this really helped , but i am female haha. but it was a lot of help
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reader, SniperAJ +, writes (17 August 2010):
I can completely relate to you! Although I am female, my boyfriend is very jealous. I handle it but trying not to get to worked up about it. There will never be a relationship without any jealously, it comes with the whole "boyfriend/girlfriend thing". In retrospect, you are hers and only hers. If you find her jealously too overwhelming theres nothing wrong with asked her to kindly "chill out". You cant expect it to go away completely. Nobody likes to their partner being flirted with, make sure everyone knows shes yours without being too possesive. But most importantly, speak to your girlfriend, she will appreciate honesty.
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