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writes: If ur bf makes the statement that ur anniversity is just a day does that mean hes not serious about our relationship? Even ifs its our first year and that he gave me a promise ring? What is he thinkin? It really hurt me becuz our first year anniversity means alot 2 me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2006): You can tell him you're hurt of course. It's understandable for both sexes. For myself, I am the only one to remember all sentimental dates in my relationship. Aside from our birthdays (which I don't care to celebrate mine), my gf doesn't remember anything else. She only remembers our first kiss because we've talked about it a lot. Me and my gf do not celebrate Valentines. The concept is nice for those who are either superfluous romantics, or for those who barely have time to do anything together every other day. The reason why I look at Valentines as just another day, is because I treat my gf the same way every day as if it were Valentines. Last year I made my gf a digital artwork, customized with a poem and a picture that expresses my heart and desires for her. It is my way of showing without celebrating. That was when I wasn't sure what she felt about Valentines. Make sense?
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (3 March 2006):
 He gave you a ring does that not say that he feels a lot for you.
I have never been one for remembering anniversaries, I find it difficult to remember birthdays and on some days my own name, lots of people are like me, it does not mean that we care less it is just that we dont get hung up on time scales and dates, being with some one says that you are committed not making a huge fuss on one day of the year even if it is your first.
Relax and just enjoy being with him, you can mark the occasion even if he does not want to.
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