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writes: My partner and I have been arguing for about a year now. It all started when I fell pregnant with my second child. We have now split up as I can't take it any more and it is not fair on the kids. Even though we are not together any more, he continues to argue with me and always brings the past up. How do we move on and stay civil with each other?
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (24 March 2005):
 By saying just that: that you intend for you both to stay civil and that you won't enter into any arguments with him, no matter what he says. The next time he wants to argue, walk away from him if possible and explain that you have no intention to argue with him anymore. What has been said and done has already been said and done and that it is pointless to continue arguing as you are no longer together. Say to him that you would still like to be friends and that you both need to think of the children. They would prefer their parents to get on than fall out.I hope this helps you.
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