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writes: Me and my boyfriend have been together and having sex for over two years and I still have never climaxed. He says that he really wants me to and it's what he thinks about, but I feel that it's all for his pleasure. When I try to talk to him about it, he gets embarrassed and defensive, like I am trying to attack his performance. What do i do!!?? I am starting to stress about it! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2006): Too bad honey! I mean too bad for him! He either openly talks about it with you, or you two don't do it at all. I mean, geez, for me, I try to get my gf to orgasm before I do. If she can't get it, then I won't get it.
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (21 February 2006):
 Try exploring your own body and making yourself have orgasm thru self-masturbation. Then when you know what turns you on you can show him.x
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reader, willywombat +, writes (21 February 2006):
Try exploring your own body and making yourself have orgasm thru self-masturbation. Then when you know what turns you on you can show him.x
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reader, _Donnah_ +, writes (21 February 2006):
 Try using durex performa - this has a special lubricant in the end of it which helps to delay climax for men. I hope this helps you.xx
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reader, smeedle +, writes (21 February 2006):
 Blondebombshell, this is a very common problem, you see women need a longer time to get warmed up than men and need to experiment with possitions, they need the right setting and need to feel wanted, loved and cared for, men dont.
Lots of women dont climax with sex, do you masturbate and climax, if so maybe you could show your partner what to do with his fingers or tongue in order to get you to climax.
You also need to read some sex books (not the smutty type, the educational type) bet your mum has a book called "the joy of sex" lying around.
You need to do loads of foreplay and get your bloke involved in this, if he is not interested in making sex pleasurable for you then bin him.
Sex is fun and should be enjoyed by both not just him.
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