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anonymous
writes: My boyfriend is going on a lads holiday, im pregnant and only have 7 weeks left and he didn't even ask me how i feel about him going, he just booked it with his mates. He is a big flirt with the women and i'm scared he will cheat when he is there, how will i know if he does? All his friends are single and he isn't. i really don't know what to do. I did tell him if he cheated and caught something and gave it to me it is very dangerous for the baby. He just said he wouldn't but i really can't trust him at the moment. All i keep thinking is why does he want to go on a lads holiday? please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2008): maybe he needs one last vacation out with the guys before the baby comes, because then he will be busy helping you.
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reader, jabey +, writes (7 August 2008):
Its a shame that you are having a baby with soemone you dont trust, im sad to hear that. Ok the reality is, it must be tough for you when heavily pregnant we all feel alittle insecure and not our best. And yes hard that your chap is off on holiday leaving you at this point. All you can do is be very strong, the truth is you wont know if he cheats and therefore you must try to not worry abotu what might never happen. It is out of your control and worrying about it wont be good for you or your baby. You will have to trust and believe in him and hope he is going away to have his last bit of freedom. Be strong he is less likely to cheat if your calm anyway xxx
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