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writes:I feel like I'm in love but am I right? I've slept with my boyfriend and we feel perfect for eachother in many ways. After every phone convorsation it always ends up in an 'I love you'. I don't want to lie about loving him. Because I really feel I do. I'm young and my mom says I'm crazy for being in love at this age. Could a girl really fall in love at such a young age? I'm so confused. One emotion says you love him but the other wants to cheat on him! What should I do? We broke up plenty of time and mostly because of me and I won't ever brale his heart again if it isn't permament. I'm getting the though to brake everything, but I can't, I really love him. Is this right?
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reader, deejuliet  +, writes (24 April 2007):
 You dont. You dont get to break up with someone for a few days so that you can 'legally' mess around with someone! There is no such thing as a time out! Either you break up, or you dont! The big problem here is that you are just way too young for ANY of this. You are too young to be committed to someone, way too young to be in love, way too young to be 'messing around' and certainly WAAAAAAAY to young to be having sex. What is the rush?!?!?!?! You only get to be a child for such a very short time of your life. You have to be an adult for so dang long, and you will regret what you are doing later.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2007): creator
he really isn't doing anthing. He spends almost everyday with me. We hang out at my house. We talk alot. But he is really nervous because I'm going on a trip to Boston in May and I don't know what going to happen there, so I said I need to brake up with him for that time period. I feel bad because he kinda knows what going to happen. I've been crushing on this kid John since Pre-K and we both seem to really like eachother, but he doesn't seem like the boyfriend ype, so I want to just mess around. You know what I mean. I don't want to have sex with him. How do I explain to Matt (my bf) this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2007): (creator)
10-12?
I put I was born in 90. I'm 16. Well going on 16.
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reader, deejuliet +, writes (18 April 2007):
What you are feeling is called infatuation. It is the wonderful high of FEELING in love without actually being in love. Your feelings are very real, but they are not love. Love takes time and maturatiy. Give yourself a chance to be the young girl that you are. Love, sex and commitment will come all in their good time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2007): If you are agde 10 to 12 as it says on your profile, it is illegal. You are way too young.
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reader, venuseed +, writes (18 April 2007):
 you are still forming your opinions about life and will not have finished that until you are at least 25, most young people in relationships change very quickly over a relatively short space of time why should you be any different? being in love who knows? Anyway find someone you can talk to about your conflicting emotions. Is it also that you feel trapped and vulnerable at the same time. Dont take it all on your shoulders what is he doing to contribute to your confusion?
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