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writes:My boyfriend and I broke up one month ago because he was unsure if he loves me anymore. After a few days, he said he came to a decision that he does not love me. Love according to him is a feeling and full acceptance of a person without expecting the person to change.We have been in a relationship for almost 4.5 years and have always been close. There was no third party and we do communicate a lot. Early this year, both of us moved overseas to the same country and different states for our university education. All was fine till the break up happened. One month prior to the break, he even sent me a card to say that "if all goes well, the home we will have will be a nice one..." When asked about the stuff he wrote, he said "i forgot what i wrote" and on another occasion "that was what i want then".I still do care a lot for him and we still can talk online and on the phone like how we did before the break up and he even remarked that "he likes our relationship like that". Do i still have a chance with this guy? Is there anyone who were unsure of their love and became sure after the break up? What is the best course of action, no contact or still be his friend?Many thanks for any advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2009): Heyy...i know how you feel...i had a similar situation...my boyfriend broke with me...and he said that he wasn't feeling it for me anymore...blah blah blah...i was so devastated...i even tried killing myself a few times...it was that bad...so i cried for like a year until someone online recommended me this book...its called The Secrets of Fascinating Womanhood by Helen Andelin and you can download it online for free in pdf format here is the website:http://www.zealandpublishing.co.nz/womanhood%20book%20secrets%20of.html
he didn't even want to talk with me and he had other women...now were back together thanks to this book and our relationship is indescribable...seriously (don't be a skeptic...try it) its for married couples but you can always apply it in any situation like i did in mine...if it weren't for that book i would probably still be depressed and crying...hope this helps you too...good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2009): Heyy...i know how you feel...i had a similar situation...my boyfriend broke with me...and he said that he wasn't feeling it for me anymore...blah blah blah...i was so devastated...i even tried killing myself a few times...it was that bad...so i cried for like a year until someone online recommended me this book...its called The Secrets of Fascinating Womanhood by Helen Andelin and you can download it online for free in pdf format here is the website:http://www.zealandpublishing.co.nz/womanhood%20book%20secrets%20of.html
he didn't even want to talk with me and he had other women...now were back together thanks to this book and our relationship is indescribable...seriously (don't be a skeptic...try it) its for married couples but you can always apply it in any situation like i did in mine...if it weren't for that book i would probably still be depressed and crying...hope this helps you too...good luck
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (29 September 2009):
It doesn't really sound like he's coming back. He was honest with you. He said that he couldn't be with you because he felt his love wasn't strong enough. You now have to let yourself heal and go and find another guy who really will love you enough to be with you. Be brave and let this guy go, he won't come back.
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