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Once the condom is on, the fun is gone

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Question - (1 September 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 September 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My bf and I have just started to have sex. However, when ever we go to put the condom on he completely loses his boner and can't get hard again. He spent an hour looking at porn to see if that would get him up but it didn't. However, if we do it with out the condom on he can stay hard but we don't do it for a long period of time due to the fact that I don't want to be having a baby anytime soon!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2009):

Wow. What sort of self-respecting man goes limp when a naked girl is around?

I'd get checked out for erectile dysfucntion or at least get some psychological evaluations done.

Flynn 24

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2009):

Can you go on the pill instead? By the way, just having unprotected sex for a short time doesn't mean you won't get pregnant. If you use an alternative method such as the pill you will be protected all the time as long as you take it properly.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2009):

You might try making putting the condom on fun. Make a game out of it, and keep him stimulated while you do it. It doesn't have to be a game ender.

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