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I feel hot and yet ugly all at the same time

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Question - (1 September 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 September 2009)
A male United States age 36-40, *34 writes:

so this may sound kinda stupid but I'm 25 years old and never had a girlfriend so obviousley I feel like a dork and I'm very shy but I want to know is that what are the chances that I'm acctually really hot because ussually when I go places I see girls literally stop and stare and smile and it seem like every girl I pass I see there eyes on me until I look away and when I drive my car I see which seems like almost every girl turns there head and looks at me and I know I'm not a freak but I'm so shy and have social anxiety I pretty much run away and I feel hopeless so what can I do I feel like a freak and also would any girl even want to go out with a guy that feels like a freak

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2009):

No they probably would not. So you'd better get some darn confidence in you boy! I am heavily heavily sure, (85%) that you don't look nor act like a freak! :) go out more and enjoy the attention x

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A female reader, bride2b United States +, writes (1 September 2009):

maybe you should post ur pic on hotornot.com and see what people think. this could either boost your self-esteem or demolish it. if you don't have confidence in yourself you will continue to feel shy. just be confident and approach one of the chicks who u see checkin u out. if you get turned down don't let it stop u! eventually u will find someone who finds u attractive and not so "dorky". keep in mind that some chicks think "dorky" is "hott" :)

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