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*rokenhearted1987
writes:hi, im nearly 20 and i had been with my boyfriend for past three and a half years. We also have a child who is 17 months. 4 months ago we recently moved in together, I thought we would have our ups and downs and we did, my partner didnt have a job so we were in each others faces basically 24/7. however a couple days ago, infact fathers day we had a argument and he told me that he is leaving and that he hasnt loved me for a while (infact a month he told me) and that it was time to tell me because he doesnt want to keep stringing me along. He has since left to go back to his mums, he visits his son, but i am just so brokenhearted as i love him enormously. do you think he will regret what he said? or do you think he can ever be back in love with me? all i do is cry. please get bak thanks
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reader, flower girl +, writes (20 June 2007):
 Hi babe know exactly how you feel was there myself ten months ago, out of the blue my husband said that he no longer loved me anymore and off he went leaving me to deal with the shock and our two children, background our business was going slow and we had debts at home and he was suffering depression we lost sight of each other, he has just told me he does love me and he now realises he was ill and we are sorting things out.
Is he still out of work because if he is this could be affecting him in a big way he could be slighty depressed and feeling like a failure and thinking that you would be better off without him.
You need to talk and find out what the reason for him no longer loving you is and if he says it is nothing you have done just try and hold in there reassure him and just be there for him.
Hopefully he will realise what he has and that it was just a bad moment.
Take care.xx.
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