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writes:Hoping someone can help here...I am pretty confused. Six months ago now one thing led to another with a guy I really liked. He had been flirting with me for about a year and then he told me the next day that he had a girlfriend. We only went so far but I backed away from him after that and wanted nothing more to do with him. Now I find we are working together on a committee and to be honest I do not have the stomach for it. He called me when he found out we were working together on the committee and said he would like to get together for coffee but he does not want things to go back to the way they were. I do not want to be in the same room as him but do not want to quit the committee as it is something I really like. Any ideas appreciated.
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reader, Jualsy  +, writes (9 September 2007):
 Looks like you have a choice to make here.If you want both things equally then you will have to adjust your attitude and take control and not care so much about him being there at the meetings. Act the part!!!If you are being honest about this, fine....if not then you need to deal with your emotions.
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