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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I want to contact an old crush. We both had crushes on eachother but we were both very shy. I was a nervous wreck around her so nothing happened. I've regretted it ever since. I still think about her from time to time. I haven't had any crushes since. I'm also a lot more confident now.What should I say?Would you be flattered or creeped out?Would you respond?I need girls opinions but guys are welcome to give theirs as well.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (21 December 2012):
 go for it...
Be prepared for her to blow you off... she may have moved on with her life...
on the other hand, she may be wishing you would get in touch...
how do you plan to get in touch with her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2012): I would be flattered! C'mon she is a human being. Who doesn't like to be acknowledged? And yes I would respond. If she had a crush on you, she is going to be so stoked to hear from you. I could place a bet on that.
Well are you planning to call her or online message?
Do you guys live close to each other?
Well since I don't know the details and I assume you are both off in college, possibly different cities, I would maybe facebook message her and say, "What's up! How the heck are you? You haven't changed one bit." Then ask her a couple questions so you can gauge her situation a bit. Shoot the shit with her, let it flow naturally. And then ask her out for coffee!
Good luck!
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