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Ok so how DO you pash?

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Question - (12 August 2007) 16 Answers - (Newest, 21 August 2011)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i have never pashed a guy before and my boyfriend wants me to pash him. i want to aswell but dont know how to and what to do. how do you pash?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2011):

You just stick your tongue in his or her mouth.

People always tell me to write my name in the other persons mouth with my toungue. It's pretty lame advice but yeh.

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A female reader, lil_hottie Australia +, writes (23 October 2010):

heey, ummm yer i agreee with you my boyfriend want's to pash and i have never done it before so im a lil nervious he is quite expresent but i'm kinda happy to im not sure cause if we do a pash with no tounge we only do it once so idk if we do it once or twice idk

but to your answer when he was explaning it to me he said just do anopean mouth kiss and stick your tounge in and don't be embrassed cause if it doesn't work just re-try

and if your boyfriend really loves you he wont go around telling everyone

so goodluck hope it works out :) xoxoxox

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A female reader, Lil MissShewwy Australia +, writes (8 May 2010):

Lil MissShewwy agony auntumm well last night I got close with my boyfriend who is alot older then me (hes had experience), and we were ment to have a normal kiss but he put his tounge in and i honeslty didnt have a clue wat i was doing... so yeah i did the unthink able, i pulled away.

But then because he knew that i really havent done alot of it before, he said it was ok when i apologized...

Then he was teaching me how, it was sooo sweet...

no one really knows how to pash, people just have there own way of doing it. Pashing takes practise and practise is how you get real good and get experience... well thats how i see it and im 14 :)

hope this helps, xoxox

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A female reader, Alix146 Australia +, writes (23 April 2010):

Ok i had the same question don't worry and stress that you will do it wrong or anything just tilt your head to one side open your lips a bit and when you are kissing go with the flow

just relax and do it! You'll do fine! xxxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2009):

u just kiss normally then open ur mouth after a while. it all falls into place soon after that.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2009):

theres a couple of ways you can pash,

basically go for a normal kiss, and while your locking lips, open your mouth a little bit and either he'll put his tongue in or slowly slide your tongue out.

Once you tongues out theres a coupe of things you can do.

depending on the mood just go with the flow, but you HAVE to do everything slowly, when you go fast he'll confuse your tongue with a fish which is gross :S

you can kinda follow his tongue, never put your tongue in too far thoug, just touch the tip of his tongue with yours and go from there

you can trace around his lips and mouth with your tongue (once again not too deep)

or your could just expirement.

Pashing takes practice though and the best way you can learn is from experience:)

just remember 3 main things-

1.BREATHE THROUGH YOUR NOSE!!!!

2.keep everything SLOW and delicate, dont push too hard or squirm around like a fish :S

3. dont stick your whole tongue in!!! just a little bit, when people say 'stick your tongue down his throat' dont take it literally coz thats seriously gross, stick your tongue in but not down his throat:)

Good Luck!!! xx

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A female reader, XObeck Australia +, writes (7 July 2009):

Well, when I had my first pash I was unsure how or what to do, but if you have seen someone pash before you imagine what they would do and it comes to you... dont like it pull away slowly and try again later or stick to regular kissing :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2009):

Well hey,

Im actually 15 and yeeaa i know how to pash and ......

well what you do is

-when you go in, like tilt your head and just close your eyes

-Just go in for a kiss, you should wait till he puts his tounge in your's if he doesn't...

-GO FOR IT!!put your tounge in,very slowly though..

-If you uncomfortable and you want to stop slowly bring out your tongue and a kiss on the lios

aNoN-xO

gOoDlUcK

gO wItH ThE fLoW!!:)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008):

Hello sweeite,

here is the thing u tilt your head the oppsite way your partners head is, touch mouths and he will stick his tounge in your mouth foloow his tounge where ever it gose

but member go with the flow and if your not ready tell him, if he understands u'll be foreva together

hopes this helps

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2008):

Hello sweeite,

here is the thing u tilt your head the oppsite way your partners head is, touch mouths and he will stick his tounge in your mouth foloow his tounge where ever it gose

but member go with the flow and if your not ready tell him, if he understands u'll be foreva together

hopes this helps

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2007):

umm... i want to no aswell... lol

all i no is that you, go in for a normal kiss, but then you move you mouth from side to side (its hard to explain)

then you might want to add a lil tongue... lol

then go from there.. JUST GO WITH THE FLOW!

xx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2007):

http://www.videojug.com/film/how-to-kiss-someone-passionately

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2007):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thanks sooo much.

ill tell you how it goes.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2007):

a pash (from where i come from) is a snog.. a good old fashioned snog

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A male reader, Jenks 666 United Kingdom +, writes (12 August 2007):

isn't it just passionate kissing with tongues?

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A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom +, writes (12 August 2007):

hlskitten agony auntPash?

I wouldnt mind knowing too!

Waits for replies...

c xxxxxxx

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