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writes:I know that people change over time. So,my boyfriend changed over the years. At first, he was so romantic -he wouldn't buy stuff, but, only write lil sticky love notes saying something sweet. He would leave notes like this under the pillow or someplace where I would find it. It was sweet, now this has changed. I have been doing always romantic things and still am, but it bothers me that he has stopped. I spoke about that to him some time ago, and he says when time is right, well, I have been waiting now nearly 6mths and nothing sweet nor romantic thing has he done. I cook at home, and always try something new to impress him, and once a weekm i make dessert for us. yet, i just feel like a limp flower knowing his usual routine "tastes great, thanks hunny". Recently, this started to bother me because I feel he takes this for granted since I have been waiting months for him to do something but nothing comes out of him, yet hecan manage in investing on bet competitions at work on whom will win the work competitions and then tell me he's tight on budget, when it doesnt cost much to do so something sweet. Im so in need of advice?!?
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (14 June 2007):
 My oartner stopped buying me flowers and cards a little while back and said it was because he felt that he didn't need to do it anymore. I told him that I liked getting them and they made me feel special, and since Ive found out I'm pregnant he's begun to buy little gifts again every so often.
I stopped getting little gifts for my bloke when he stopped because I got to the point of well if he can't be asked why should I. We had arguments about it then finally sat down and had a calm conversation about it. He thought because he were passed the "dating" bit that he didn't need to impress me anymore. I said it wasn't about that, or about him spending money on it. Its the kind of principal of being made to feel special and loved, then that safety net not being there anymore. I'm not a totally insecure person or anything I just like the showing of affection.
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