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*hoebe66
writes:I'm married, have been for years,with children but have recently become utterly obsessed with a celebrity, to the point of spending time chatting to fellow obsessives in fan forums and neglecting my family and man. the obsession began when I met this man, though he showed absolutely no interest inme, and prior to our meeting,I wasn't really aware of him.I don't want to become a sad stalker. Reply to this Question
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reader, phoebe66 +, writes (15 January 2008):
phoebe66 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you to those of you who took the trouble to reply to my post and I have taken your advice.If it was a work colleague I fancied, I'd avoid all contact, because my marriage is really important to me.I've stopped going on the fan sites and talking to other obsessives and I've talked to my husband about it.I've also booked us a spring break in Amsterdam for a few days so we can spend time as a couple again.I don't want to live my life thinking about a bloke I don't even know! it was purely a distraction during a particularly miserable time, and fortunately, I'm intelligent enough to realise that. So thanks again and I'll send you all a bunch of virtual tulips from Amsterdam ok?
With much love, Phoebe xxxxx
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reader, hello1 +, writes (15 January 2008):
 I used to get quite obsessed with actors but as I got older its now gone on to TV shows! There's nothing with going on a fan site but if your ignoring your real life then there's a problem. Set a time limit on the computer and spend the rest of the time with your family. It's not that hard
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