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writes:hi will i ever find a boyfriend? i did something a year ago its almost two years. i went to a chatting site and i have friends who are gay,bi, etc. and straight a lot. and i was so bored a few days before i took pics with my pc nude. i know i shouldnt have but i did. i deleted them and i kept three. but deleted 2 and stayed with one in the end. with just body showing no face. so then the days passes and i went to the chatting site like i said. and i went to gay,les ,staright chat. and i chatted. and i put my mobile to chat. and i got a text i got a nude pic. i deleted it i didn't know it was from a girl. then i was chating with text with someone i didn't even know. so i was chatting when that person told me to send a pic nude. i put the pic but i was doubting on sending it. so i didn't want to, but my phone was an old phone. so i was pressing the back roll buton. and it accidentaly sent the pic. i tried so it wouldnt i even took the battery out. it sent. so i turned the phone on again. and the person send me a message. and a pic it turned out to be a girl. a woman. but she sent a nude pic. and told me to send more. and she would also i didnt say anything. she asked me i said i didn't have any. and she asked me my name i told her mitchie i lied. and i told my mom this year but i also lied because i told her i was chatting with someone and i accidentaly send a nude pic to a guy. and i dont know what to do. i will tell my mom.. but im worried because i havent told my friends. and if i ever get a boy friend i already told my self i will tell the guy before hand so he dosent get any surprises just in case. even the pic has no face. so please tell me what i should do. i cant sleep at night i have problems sleeping and know its worse.i sleep watching tv and distracting my self to not think. and if i could i would never have done that. im a good woman. i just did a mistake. do you guys think my friends would understand me and forgive me? and if i get a boyfriend also understand ? or any guy want to go out with me even if i did that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy Name Is Joanna By The way. and thanks for all your answers it really helped me. thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI just turned 20 this sep. I was. 18 when i die that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you i will. Try. To. Move. On.i will. Never. Do it again. I will. Not let. It bother me. Anymore.. thanks.
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reader, serenity80  +, writes (4 October 2011):
Aw you poor thing. It sounds like you had a regrettable experience but the best thing you can do is move on from it and not let anything like it happen again. I think it's best you don't mention this to any future boyfriends, there is no need for them to know. Be glad you didn't send nude pictures showing your face to people you know, this would have been much worse!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you i will. Thanks to both of you. What do you think i should do if i get a boyfriend.?
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reader, violetskye89  +, writes (4 October 2011):
This situation is really taking a toll on you. While talking to someone you can trust might help, I get that you are afraid of being judged too harshly. But if you don't want anyone to know you know you can keep it that way unless you really feel like talking about it of course. You made a mistake, the picture has no face so your lucky in way. Just keep it to yourself, you made a mistake.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 October 2011):
 Everybody makes mistakes. But you are letting this get out of control and it is having huge effects on your life and your health. What you done is your business and nobody else's and you need to try and let it go. You don't need to tell your friends or if you ever have a boyfriend you don't need to tell him either. It was in the past and it is very unlikely ever going to become an issue again in the future. Learn from it and move on. Keep it to yourself and just put it to the back of your mind. You didn't do anything hugely wrong. I understand that it is worrying you but you need to accept now that it is done and not make an issue out of it. It is your business nobody else's. If you need someone to talk to about it well keep talking to your mother but nobody else needs to know about it.
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