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Now that she's back with her bf..I find I am sad and wanting to be with her myself. Why am I doing this?

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Question - (18 November 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 18 November 2006)
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i have a extremely close friend. she has a 9month boyfriend. she broke up with him, she called me over, she was in a terrible state! she was cryin but i was there for her. i really wanted her to get back with him. next day she phoned me and told me her boyfriend said sorry and they are back. she was so happy, i was really happy for her. she thanked me for being there for her. as soon as i put the phone down i felt terrible, i dont know why! i think i had feelings for her but i never realized. i really was depressed to hear she was back together! a few days before i was happy for her but i want her now! what shall i do?

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A male reader, Thomas17 Singapore +, writes (18 November 2006):

Thomas17 agony auntHello,

what you feel now is NOT love.. its rather envy coz she was really close to you for only that time..

you have to know the relationship will not last long and that the girl herself will get hurt.. she will be thinking:"she gets back with her boyfriend, now that their relationship is still a bit unstable, you want her to be your girlfriend"

more like she thinks you're using her.

okay i have no idea what im talking about. i woke up weirdly today.

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