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writes:Its wierd right. I have this friend that i was really close to and had great laughs with. But then she started to date one of my friends and now we barely speak. I havent done anything wrong. What has happened? Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (13 November 2008):
 Maybe your friend is uncomfortable with her talking to other fellas... maybe she had feelings for you, and now is avoiding you so that she won't get into any trouble... maybe she's so distracted with a new love that she's flaking out on maintaining her friendships...
I'm sure that you didn't do anything wrong. For some reason, she's cooled off. Give her some time to adjust to her new relationship and then say "hey, what's up? I miss laughing with you!!!", and get back on that road to rekindle your friendship. Or, maybe try to hang out with her boyfriend and her so that as a couple, they're more comfortable with you in their lives.
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reader, Teacake +, writes (13 November 2008):
 She probably feels uncomfortable because she knows she hurt your feelings. You will find another girl and when you do you won't even understand what you liked about her. Kids are as fickle as adults. People come and go. People can be rude and hurtful.
Just don't tell her that she hurt you. It would only make her ego get too big. The best thing to do is act like you don't even care and just say hello and smile and leave it at that. I'm not even sure why so many children are in romantic dating situations these days! Its hard enough when your an adult. Just understand that this is going to happen to all of us all of our life. People come and go and its very sad. Nothing we can do about it other than to look forward to life's adventures.
Why not save some money so you can go on a travel adventure when you're 20?
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