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writes:I dont know what the deal is with this guy. We met a couple of months back, swapped numbers and got on really well. But then he started to really come on strong like texting all the time and stuff and sometimes I was really busy so couldnt reply straight away and he would just keep texting and ringing. It really annoyed me so I told him to leave me alone. He did and then I started to realise that I liked him. Only now when Im showing an interest he seems to have backed off. Weve met up and had a really good date and kissed. I told him I liked him but just didnt like the constant hassle he gave me before. He apologised. But he just seems so distant and disinterested and its weird as at first he was constantly texting me and now its me doing it to him and he ignores me. Why is he being like this? I hate playing games in relationships. I think that if you like someone then you like someone and theres no point playing silly mind games. Is this what hes doing? What do you think? x
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2012): He sounds manipulative and disrespectful. He likes it his way or the high way! Hassling girls is apparently all what he knows about relationships, and you're better off without this creep. You're a young beautiful princess, and you deserve to be treated with respect to your wishes, which he seems to rather go the opposite direction every time thinking he'd get more of your attention.
Keep a distance from that creep, and if he hassles you again, which I think he will, tell him that you'll report him to the police if he doesn't stop, and actually do if he doesn't. He needs to learn how to treat a lady, and by the sound of it he doesn't deserve to be with one.
Good luck xxx
Emily
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (18 March 2012):
 I don't think he is playing games, I think he is trying to adapt to your wishes.
Talk to him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2012): Maybe he is confused too. He was too keen for you, now not keen enough. It is difficult when you seem not to be on the same page. If you really like him and want this to work you have to have a chat about this. Now you are going to have to say he's too distant - he may think he can't win. Make a joke of it with him, it is the only way.
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