| A
female
,
anonymous
writes: Dear Cupid, Confusion!That's all I'm feeling right now.I know it might sound stupid,but I am about two seconds away from a breakdown. See,not too long ago,this guy that I used to like started talking to me on the Internet.Everyone had always thought he hated me,but he was being really nice and talking to me like I was his friend.Unable to stand it,I asked him why he was talking to me and told him that I had always thought he hated me.He replied saying that he just felt better about himself now...which apparently means that he feels like he doesn't have to hate me anymore. We talk every time we're online,and he's always nice to me.It's like he never hated me with the extreme hatred he used to feel. So...do you think he likes me?Do you think there's a chance that we might become more than friends?He doesn't know I like him,but should I tell him myself?HELP!!!!!!!!!Sarah
View related questions:
a break, the internet Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Anastasia  +, writes (30 July 2005):
 Girl you crazy?! Sarah...this guy sounds like he has issues and more issues. He seems to have a self esteem problem that he has to deal with not you. Not to mention he either is moody or thinks so highly of himself that it is blinding him. So what if he feels better about himself?! So when he is down he has to be mean to everyone else. Chick...step away from the crazy guy..You don't need that drama so early in life.
I think he sees in you someone that he can manipulate to make himself feel better. I don't suggest you tell him you like him ...it might fuel something you don't want.
Careful Sarah...take care..ana
|
