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writes:My Girlfiend and i started for a baby 3 month's ago and we did it like bunny's for 3 month's and this past month she gets tummy pain (weird pain)but she kept having sex like mad 4-5 times a week but when her period's came around she didn't cum on we did a test and noticed she was pregnant we did it that same day once and now she know's she's pregnant she never seems in the mood anymore is this normal?
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reader, uonlyliveonce +, writes (2 July 2006):
 well im 6month pregnant now and at times i wanted sex all the time and sometimes i just didnt feel like it at all your hormones are all over the place while your pregnant and the first few month can be pretty rough for some people and she may just not feel like it.
dont worry about it make sure you give her plenty of affection in other ways and let her know you care
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reader, Smiler +, writes (29 June 2006):
 Hey Babe
Well i agree completely with Wendy her advice is spot on as usual :o) She is probably just worried that you 2 having sex will hurt the baby but you need to reassure her that your baby is very well protected try having a look on this website together :- www.fitpregnancy.com and this should help reassure her that sex during pregnancy is perfectly fine and will not harm your baby at all but other than that constant reassurance is the only real answer babe :o)
I hope my advice was of help to you in this situation :o) and good luck with it. If you ever need a friendly chat of shoulder to cry on or just more advice I'm always here for you
You Take Care X
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (29 June 2006):
 It could just be that shes scared of hurting the baby. Its nigh on impossible as the baby is pretty protected, but the early stages of pregnancy are crucial and this in the first three months is when you are likely to miscarry. This has been in some cases not all, sometimes linked to vigorous sex, its very remote but it can happen, im sure all shes doing is making sure that the baby is okay. Why dont you ask her ? She might not be feeling herself, maybe a bit sick, her hormones will start to go all over the place and she could also be scared its quite daunting for some woman to be pregnant in the early stages its all a mix or hormones. Dont put the focus on sex, but it on her, make sure shes okay, surely you would rather a healthy baby and girlfriend than a rampant sex life ? Talk to her, at this time she could be feeling a multitude of things, and sex is probably the last thing on her mind. Try to be a little less selfish and find out if shes okay, shes carrying your child after all! Show her you care and find out whats on her mind, but take this focus off sex, its not going to help in the long run.
Take care x
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni'm very sure this is my baby.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2006): Are you sure its your baby?
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