| A
female
,
*eah
writes: Right.. thanks for reading this by the way.... me and my best friend of 6 years have been seeing each other and then we went out for 7 months and he broke it off. Three days later he came back to me wanting to do shit, but we are still doing stuff. It's so hard for me because I love him still we talk every day and everything. I can't shut him out of my life. I just cant.... I wish things would go back to the way things were but we argue now a lot more than before and we barely talk in person. I know it's my fault because I still have feelings but what if he still has feelings for me? That's why he wants to do sexual stuff with me and not have me do it with other people? I don't know... is there anything you guys can say to this? Is there anything you guys suggest I do? Is there anything I can do to make our friendship well, a more of a spark? Please!
View related questions:
best friend, spark Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, smeedle  +, writes (14 March 2006):
 You went from good friends to lovers and that is were the problems arose, you now want what you had as friends but due to the sex this will not be possible.
What he is doing with you is wrong, he cannot just finish with you and then use you for sex, it is just not on and must stop, where is your pride, dont let him use you in this way!.
You may have feelings for him but believe me he has none for you other than lust.
He wants you to be exclusive to him to use when he wants but he does not want to comit to you, wise up and move on, you think you car`nt but you can and you must.
|
