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writes:Hey everyone, i had just recently wrote about a guy younger then me that i felt liked me..i had thought a lot about it and realized that if he asked me out i would say yes as i realized i do have feelings for him. last night was one of the nights that we gather together for dance. the time before he asked me a lot if i have a bf and i said no and he said he is going to fully find out. without telling me who he is finding it out or what he is going to find out. Last night he wasnt paying attention to me like he used to it. It was obvious that he was trying to pull himself away. He would look me in the eyes like always and he would give me this smile but not like before, before he would look longer and give a flirty smile but this time he would look away fast. I was getting really mad and wanted to do something about it, at that second i got a call on my cell phone from my brother telling me to come home right now. I got home and he started getting mad at me. Why are you going, Why is he teaching you dance, all of that kind of questions. We started arguing and he told me never to go there again without giving me a reason. Just saying CUZ I DONT WANT YOU TO DO. I told him my sister is going, my cuzins are there, its at my aunts house, whats the problem and he said no i dont want you to go. SO im guessing that when he was finding out if im single and all of that it got to my brother and my brother doesnt want me by him. Now i cant take it. He wants to talk to my brother on why he doesnt let me go but my cuzins lied to him and said that he doesnt let because my grades are slipping so he wont think it has to do with him. right now i am dying. im worried on wat if he does talk to my brother, what is going to happen...i dont want this to get bigger and i really want to go back. Ive realized i have feelings for him and he makes me feel good and i want to go see him. But now i know that he is going to stay away knowing what my brother could do. PLZ SOMEONE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE IM GOING KRZY
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reader, Hid3nTearDropz +, writes (19 April 2008):
Hid3nTearDropz is verified as being by the original poster of the questionya I am 19 and the only reason why I might sound younger is because I have to listen to my brother... My parents have this rule your brother knows best.... The whole time this fight was happening my mom was in the room but getting mad at me for talking back to my brother... Yesterday I was with my cuzin n we saw that guy in the street we said hi and all that n he seemed fine with me n I'm glad he is cuz I thought he would be mad.... Our next practice is on Monday n if I dont see him I think I'll die
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (19 April 2008):
Where are your parents?
Why is your brother allowed to ground you?
If your feelings for this guy are real and if his feelings for you are real then he will wait for you for a little while.
Talk to your parents and aunt about your brother and then hopefully you will have some freedom to see who you want.
It says you are 18 -21 so you should be free to do what you want. However you sound much younger, so you should talk to your parents about it anyway. Just tell them your brother is controlling you and being unfair.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, salvation +, writes (19 April 2008):
you need to talk to your brother and tell him how you feel and also talk to this guy and tell him how you feel be honest. If you like him then unless your brother has a good reason like the guy is a player then he shouldnt be stoping you. Good luck
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