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writes:I'm 19 years old and have been with my boyfriend who's 22 for nearly 6 months now. We have a great relationship, we're both very affectionate, loving and caring towards one another and we make each other laugh, infact ive never been so happy in a relationship before.the only problem is, we'd only been together 2months before i had to start university... so now we're apart alot of the time as my bf works full time back at home.he was the one who suggested we make a go of things and we are managing the whole long distance thing, but im just finding it so so difficult.we make the effort to see each other whenever we can, but when im apart from him i just miss him so much it hurts, i cry alot because i feel i just need a hug off him and i miss just being around him and having fun.We do talk every day, whether it be a text, a phone call or whatever but i just feel this isn't enough, I can't keep feeling this way because I'm worried it might effect our relationship. we say we miss each other all the time, but im a very emotional person and cry on the phone to him alot and for no reason at all can get mad at him for silly things just because im down.I want to find a way to get through this because right now i feel so low and want to make sure that something like this isnt going to ruin our relationship because i dont know how to handle it.Has any one got any suggestions or experienced this for themselves? thanks
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reader, vampchick +, writes (17 January 2009):
Ok ive been in a relationship for three years and recently went to uni. Its hard I no what ur going through, afew things might help.
1 Suprize each other by writing letters or sending a little something in the post for the other to hold on to
2 Have you got msn and a webcam? I find it good just to sit and work with the video call going while hes doing something else, it means u can just hang even if u can physically be there
3 Your going to have a lot of stupid fights, never end the day with an arguement, resolve it and then talk for bout 10 mins about anything
4 try to call when your not tired
Its tough but if he means alot to u hang on with everything you got. hope it helps it helped me
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