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writes:i'm worried about what a boy would think of me naked.although i am NOT going to have sex yet, i'm afraid of whether i would be judged. i'm not really fat, but i definately have a lot of bulge. i have lines on my hips and the inside of my legs. pubic hair is it really going to cause a problem? i just wont to be prepared, you know? what would boys prefer?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2011): The guy who you do end up having sex with should be the one who loves you/wants you for exactly who you are and who thinks you are amazingly sexy! :) So no, being plump isnt a problem. My sexiest friends, who are the most desired by boys and who enjoy sex the most are NOT my skinniest friends. Im not saying this is an absolute rule, but its true of my friends!
Also, im guessing the lines are stretch marks on your hips... the best thing for them is to moisturise aftre every shower, and they will fade over a few years, to be barely noticable. I grew really fast and had huge purple ones when I was 14/15 and now im 23 you can barely see them, they are normal skin colour! :)
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reader, boxOfWisdom  +, writes (19 March 2011):
If u r going to have sex with a guy who isnt happy with the way u look then ur haveing sex with the wrong guy, so if hes realy the right guy for u to be intimate with then he shouldnt care about a little extra bulge or hair, the hair is hair it can always be waxed or shaved, or lazered if u have the money, lets put it this way, if hes not ur bf, dont have sex with him, most likely he'll just be useing u otherwise. I have a sister i know wat its like to have girls being self concious she always come to me for advice, soo i hope i helped
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reader, NadgerBadger +, writes (19 March 2011):
Hey :) Don't worry about things. I'm sure you're only going to have sex once you've found the right person, and the right person will love you for just the way you are. Nobody has the perfect body and nobody likes what they see in the mirror so if he's the one, he'll love you anyway :) As for the whole pubic hair thing, every guy is different but I think the majority like a girl who shaves/trims, but you're only young, I don't think you need to worry about it just yet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2011): you are a "baby" still ... its not a time to think about all these .... leave these thoughts alone till you hit 17 or 18 .... You can easily get in shape ... dont worry ! :)
If you still insist, it all depends on the personality who you are going to date .... there is no general answer .... :)
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