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writes: I've been with my boyfriend for 14 months, I love him loads and I used to be convinced that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. We are perfect for each other and our relationship is great but recently we have gone to seperate colleges.He still hangs round with all our old friends but I've made new friends. One of my new friends is a boy called Sam he's really cool friend but all it is, is that I keep thinking about kissing him and I feel guilty. Now I'm not as convinced that my boyfriend and I are meant to be. I just feel so confused. Is it natural that I'm attracted to other boys, or does it just show that I'm not as in love with my boyfriend as I thought.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2005): Yes, its natural that you're attracted to other boys. I myself have been in a relationship for nearly 3 years and I still get the occasional crush. It doesn't mean that you're cheating or that you can't be faithful to him. If you love him and he loves you, if theres trust between you both and you're relationship is as much fun as it's always been... if you smile when you think of him, then focus on this. Enjoy yourself and don't hold back from friendships with other boys just in case you may start to fancy them.
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