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writes:I need some advice please. one of my best friends, who is also my roomy, has been dating her bf for over 6 or 7 months now. the problem is i cant stand him! from the beginning i thought that they moved too quickly, but i tried to get over that. i really have tried to like the guy, but he can be extremely annoying, always has a story for whatever we talk about (even if we're talking about girl issues) and i dont trust him. he also thinks he knows everything about everything. i'm not the only one who feels this way, all of our other close friends dont like him either. should we just keep quiet? our friend seems to be very happy, but we all think she could do better! should we voice our concerns to her, or just let things go?any help would be great! thanx!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni'm not jealous, we're all just worried she's latching on bc she doesnt want to be alone... she's never gone very long without having a bf. and we think that she cant handle being alone. he cant be alone at all, he's used to needy girls and hates being alone, he'll be home for 5 minutes after we've seen him and he'll call her and ask her to come over or ask if he can come to our place. we just to want her to turn into one of the needy girls he has gone out w/ in the past
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2007): Leave it alone, you say shes happy so why ruin it just because you don't like him? Is he going out with you or her? Maybe she finds his stories interesting when your just picking things you don't like about him.Everyone thinks their friends can do better but if she really is happy then why ruin it. If you find out something that's really bad such as he cheated on her or something then do tell her. But there's no need to make her choose her friends or her boyfriend because it doesn't always go the way you want it.
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