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anonymous
writes:I'm 23 age and i have been unluck with men.My firt boyfriend cheated with my cousin. my second boyfriend and he is the one i'm with now i don't love him. I dated him just because i was lonery and the thought of getting older without a men, make people wonder about my status. the other reason i agree to go out with him is because he has been propose for years and years and when the time i was lonely i just gave in. The problem is that i'm not in love, seeing him won't make my adrenaline fly.however i want to leave him but scaredthat may be i won't find a men. he is so crazy about me but i feel nothing about him. right now we are i bad state, no proper communication or seeing each other. all this are becouse of me who is streessed by the whole scenario. Do you thing should i live this man or start cultivate the love?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2007): Thank you..............is really true that there are single of my age out there? i was wondering that its only me who is paranoid since all my friend are into dating game big time. i hoping to try out your advice. i need to find my self. i just hope he will understand my point and break up with no strings attached... once again i aprreciate your advice........
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007): Girl. You are in your early 20's and you are worrying that you will never find a man?! Unless you live in a deserted island where you and your bf are the only known humans, that is impossible. OF COURSE you are going to meet a man. I mean you met your boyfriend didn't you?? And you met the guy before him, right?? Don't you see a pattern here?? Obviously you are going to eventually meet someone else the same way you met your previous boyfriends.
Clearly if you break up with this man it is possible that you may be lonely for a little while. But that will just be until you meet someone else. Furthermore, you are so young. This is the age when it is totally cool to be single. It is a good time to just hang out with friends and date guys, nothing serious. Jeez. Me and my friends, we are all in our mid 20's and we are ALL single. Surely we date guys and have boyfriends here and there, but our main focus in life is to build up our careers, travel and wait to meet the 'right' one, eventually. I am just telling you this so that you will feel better knowing that there are PLENTY of girls out there your exact same age who are totally single.
So don't settle girl. Men come and go. You will definitely meet someone sooner or later.
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