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female
age
36-40,
*hick2k
writes:We've been together for 5 months now. I spent 3 solid months with him in America, and I've got my next flight there booked.This is the first time we've been apart.He's very hateful, jealous and paranoid. He doesn't like to socialise, he doesn't go out much, he doesn't really call anyone or IM anyone online anymore (as far as I know), but he likes it that way.He was in a 3 year relationship a few years back, but the girl was cheating on him and lying to him.I've been cheated on many times but I don't bring my past into my present relationship.We've been very honest and told each other everything about ourselves, and he hates the lifestyle I used to lead. I've tried to prevent hassle by not doing anything or going out. He thinks the best thing for us to do is avoid situations that could make us both worry more than we need to. This causes no end of arguments and it upsets me. It feels like he doesn't trust me.He strongly believes girls and boys can't be friends without one liking the other and picks at the SMALLEST things to try and 'catch me out' doing something I shouldnt. He's always wrong but never admits it and rarely apologises.He's not forcing me to stay in and do nothing, but he's very good with his words and makes me feel so guilty and horrible if I even mention wanting to go somewhere or hangout with someone. His mood turns from happy to angry straight away.I'm very sensitive, and a loyal girlfriend. I wouldn't dream of even looking at anyone else. He is the first person I've ever been in love with, and I'm doing everything I can to make this work... but it feels like he doesn't trust me.What do you suggest?
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reader, Tumasking  +, writes (8 September 2008):
 I think you would keep yourself away from his.Although either you nor he is wrong...
You will be very tired for his sensitive condition.Trust me,I had the experience...too tired...
Maybe it is a break-hearted affair.What you should do is hold on!~the time will cure your hurt.
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