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Question - (17 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 January 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i am 15 years old. my parents dont approve of me having a girlfriend. i love this girl incredibly. they told me to breakup with her but i wont. please help me. i dont want to disrespect my parents. but they are not letting me see her and they are pushing it. its not fair. all they tell me is, you are to young to have a girlfriend. and i should go see the school books instead. i dont have A's and B's. i have C's and B's. they dont get lower than that. my girlfriend doesnt even go to my school. so its hard for me to see her. i need help. im going crazy. i refuse to breakup with her.

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A male reader, yum yum Switzerland +, writes (17 January 2009):

yum yum agony auntMy opinion is that your parents are interfering with your private life way too much. They should not tell you to break up with your girl friend. They should advise you and guide you but not tell you what to do concerning your personal life. However you are still living with your parents and you need to respect what they say. However I would not break up with her if it would make you unhappy.

Try seeing your girl friend without your parents finding out. Take care!

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A female reader, vampchick United Kingdom +, writes (17 January 2009):

If u reali like her continue to refuse, tell ur parents how u feel and tell them that there disrespecting ur ablity to be independent and chose for yourself. Even tell them the pressure they are putting on u is causing u stress and breaking your concerntration from ur school work. Remember your parents will always be there and love u, your chance with this girl may not.

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