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*mokey34blunt
writes:Im a female and imm in loev with another female but the thing is she isnt a lesbian i went for it anyway got her number she accepted my advances but made it clear that she wasnt gay i still went for it we go out on dates and have had sex and all but she doesnt want to be my girl oficially its like we do go together but without the title we call eachother baby, boo, sweety and get jealous when we talk to other people, fall asleep on the phone every night but still no committment what should i do?
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reader, melon  +, writes (25 December 2008):
Oh my god to the person who was banging on about Christianity and stuff! Ignore that comment entirely!!! That was literally the biggest load of rubbish I have EVER read! But yeah anyways back to your question... that must suck. Well to me it sounds like she really likes you (clearly) but is perhaps afraid of committing to a girl cos of what will entail, if she isn't gay or bi openly or whatever. I would just tell her what you feel, and find out what's going on in her head, cos the whole thing seems pretty confusing to me. Hope everything goes well :-) xxx
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reader, boo22 +, writes (25 December 2008):
 The girl's tellin you she's not a lesbian so i can't see this going anywhere unfortunately. Just try to treat your relationship with her a bit more light heartedly. There's no point getting really into her cos it sounds like a phase she's going through and you're gonna get hurt honey. Chill! Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2008): i feel the need to implore you to look towards Christ. if this girl doesn't want to be in a relationship with you, then you should accept that. but i wouldn't be doing my job as a Christian if i didn't tell you that homosexuality is a sin. i do hope you become saved someday. please do not take this as hateful because i am not judging you.
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