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female
age
36-40,
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writes:Please help, this is the question.. Does she really want this??This is the problem... me and my girlfriend have been dating around 10 months.... at first it was great! we had fun and were happy.... the "honeymoon period" is now well and truly over not that i want it to be!It seems as though we dont have fun anymore, conversation are strained and all in all its a drama!I cant tell her how I feel because she rolls her eyes and huffs... or starts an agument, she doesnt think anything is wrong. I disagree she mopes and sulks. I try to make her happy! But I think I am failing with that! I just want us to be happy... I dont think she wants to be with me and I feel like i should probably end just to make her happy... but the thought of me splitting up with her tears me in two, she is sleeping as i write this and she is just so beautiful.... What do I do???
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reader, I care  +, writes (6 April 2008):
 ok I don't know exactly everything about what's going on but my advise is this instead of expreessing how you feel for her in words why don't you do it in the actions that you do for example buy her flowers if she like them or do spontaneous things that she might like to do that you might not be totally fond of but your doing it to show how much you care sometimes actions tend to speek louder than words and everyone likes to be romanced you don't have to spend money either to show these little things you can make her favorite meal and serve it to her in a romantic setting in your home or clean the house or things of this nature leave cute messages around the house saying things like I'm thinking of you or with these messages you could send her on a small treasure hunt and lead her to something special you left for her. try these things and see what happens it's hard to bring the honeymoon stage feelings back into relationships these days because what happens is that lifes responsibilities tend to way you down and stress you out. I'm just speculating of course on what might be what's bothering her. Any way try this and see if it helps I wish you guys all the best.
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