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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: My friend and I have known each other since we were two, but ever since we moved to a new school and I got a new group of friends, she has changed. Recently, I was planning to go downtown with her and a couple of my other friends. But then , I wanted to go to the movies that same day with my other friends later. And then, the other people who were going to go downtown canceled because they had to choose between the movie and downtown but chose the movie. Then I couldn't go and she figured out I was going to the movies with my friends and she wasn't invited, so she said that I blew her off. We've had a lot of fights lately cuz she always drags me into the drama. I've tried to put myself in her shoes, but it Is really difficult for me. What should I do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2011): i understand what your going throw. she might think you too are going to grow apart cause its a change and u seem to be growing aprt from the sounds of it. you should encourage her to see more people and get around but also show her your new friends. and plan weekends that u too can just hang out alone. hope this helps and ur problem goes away...
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