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writes:Hey.. Me and my gf are both new to sex and stuff. She wanted to gve me a bj. She did. It felt amazing but I think it could be better. But I don't know what to tell her to do. She swallowed on our first time tho! Which shocked me. But I'm not going to cum all over her. I'm not a messy person. I've looked on different q's and a's and they say the girl asked the guy what to do and what he likes. She won't ask me and I don't even know what to tell her! Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for the advice! I feel more confident now. And yes I have preformed oral on her but we need to work on the communication thing. I thank everyone for the advice and if there are any tips you have please feel free to post them!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2009): You must not just badly sit her down and tell her what to do as this will likely make her embarrased. The best way is to respond when she does something you like and perhaps encourage her during it to do things you enjoy. That way it is a much more natural way of communicating your needs.
Re asking what to ask for, that is a personal issue but there are some things that can make it easier for her.Does she know she can put her hand round the base and moves it slowly and in a circular manner up and down your shaft,so she only takes what she can manage orally? Also licking around the top in circular motion followed by stronger sucking can be fun for you and easy for her. If her other hand caresses or gently fondles your balls it might excite you more for little work or technical skill from your girlfriend.
Anway I suggest you both read about if you want extra advice, there are some great informative sites out there (no not the porn ones!) I hope you return the favour and are appreciative of the attention she has given you. First time bj's can be very intimidating for a woman.
Also you should remember that practise makes perfect and maybe she hasnt asked because she wants to find out herself!
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2009): It was "amazing" but "could be better" - is that what you told her? If so, then she probably won't feel like talking.
Or perhaps she did this for you, but didn't actually enjoy it herself, and doesn't want to ask you about it because you will see it as a sign that she is willing to do it again.
Have you performed oral sex on her? If so, encourage her to tell you what SHE likes, then she might be more open to hearing about what you like.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2009): i swallowed my first time.men like it and i like the taste.anyhow communication is all i can think of.
but if she wont ask you then you tell her what you like.say something like 'hey i loved what you did but more pressure here would be nice...'etc etc x
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