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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid,My boyfriend never wants to have sex with me unless we both get really drunk and that's like once in a month if not less. While since we were blind drunk so it feels like we never have sex.I'm 23 and he's 32 and we live together for 2 years. I'm not ugly or anything. In fact I've often being told as attractive and naturally petite and curvy. I know he's not gay and we have a good relationship but feels more and more like brother and sisters. His friend told me he always treats his girlfriends like sisters. His reason is that he's stressed out about work and which I know it's true. I used to keep trying to have sex with him but he rejected me every time i did and that feels very hurtful to me.Now I don't even bother to try because every time I touch him then he whinged about being tired. I feel ashamed of myself for wanting to have sex and yet I'm so bitter about being rejected all the time. Maybe it is true that sex is more of an emotional thing for women. He's a great supporter both financially and emotionally. I'm still a full time student he supports me all the way. besides, I used to have mood disorder and that made me flew out of handles all the time, but he's always so patient with me, so understanding.While he's being kind to me he has become increasingly grumpy because of work. Now we don't even go out at all just stay home at the all time and he just lay on the lounge sleeping while I'm doing my study.I feel sexually frustrated.I really don't wanna cheat on him or leave him because of sex but I'm very bitter. How can I make him have sex with me? HELP!!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 September 2009):
This is going to sound a little harsh, but it at points you describe him as if he's your father!!!!
This relationship is simply doomed.
I know he's a good provider in terms of money, but you're already becoming bitter and frustrated. It's just a matter of time before you have a fling with someone else.
You might be better splitting up. You're still young, and there are other guys out there. Find someone else.
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