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writes:I am in 7th grade and like EVERY other girl in my school has been in a relashionship BUT ME! Is there something wrong with me that boyz dont like?Some stuff about me:I have brown hair a little past my shouldersI play TONS of basketball and softballI have a little bit of acne on my nose and foreheadI am about 5'3One other thing you should know is I might be bi but im not sure. I dont want to be and I if I am I would have to pretend I just like boys because of my family. My parents, aunts, uncles, cousins, and also my siblings all feel like boys and girls have to be the only ones together. They are completly against lesbian and gay couples. I have no way of knowing for sure because I've never been in a relashionship before, of course. If anyone has ANY advice it would so much help! Thanks!
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reader, fatlazycat  +, writes (11 July 2010):
Don't worry you have a lot of time to have a relationship!(whats the rush boys are icky at your age:P)and there's no need to feel like you have to be in a relationship just because some girls say they are in a relationship doesn't mean they are they could just be lying just so they feel included. Nothing is wrong with how you look a lot of young girls feel like there's something wrong with how they look, when actually nothing is! and about thinking your bi don't worry your still young and still developing your personality and sexuality, and if you still feel like your bi be happy and proud for who you are!
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reader, fedup123  +, writes (11 July 2010):
hey chick!
first of all what youre feeling is completely normal. i think we all go through the stage where we're like "i'm a freak, nobody likes me, i'm not normal!" that kinda thing. honestly, you will meet somebody in time just not everybody manages to click with someone at school etc, so it's not a problem :)
as for being bisexual, or gay even, it doesn't matter either way. i know it's really tough when you've got family who are set in their ways, but besides.. you say you're not even sure yourself yet, so why not just take time to think over your feelings and explore your sexuality before you even consider telling them? nobody has to know yet if you don't want them too :) i hope this helps at least a little
take care.
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