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anonymous
writes:hi.. i've still never been kissed like i've had kisses but i mean proper full on make out kind of kisses i've had like a few opportunities but when it comes too it i pull away or i look away because i feel too nervous and i'm not sure i want to do it.people have always said you don't need to know what to do you just go with the flow but i don't know but i feel i do need to know what to do because i don't want to mess it up.i know i am really silly for thinking on this too much but i can't help it.it does bug me sometimes because i feel so left out as all my friends have kissed properly and i've not.sometimes i guess i feel pressured to do it i mean they don't pressure me but that's how i feel.i've not had a relationship for a long time when i did have one i felt he was pressuring me to kiss him properly and i really didn't want too.i talk to guys and stuff and flirt but sometimes it's only a one way thing or they treat me horribly.i just want to know am i being really stupid about this?i know i am but i can't help it i just sometimes want to get it out the way but then i do want it to be special and something i remember.please don't leave nasty comments i don't care for people like that!Thanks.
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reader, Niema.x  +, writes (15 April 2009):
 well done you !
You are inspirational in my opinion , dont feel pressurised its a personal choice.
I hope you get your kiss when YOU want it :D!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you both for the responses and Steve thank you for feeling proud of me :)
lol
made me feel not so silly now.
i do know what you mean like i do want to wait for the right person but like sometimes i feel like because everyone i know has done it like kissed and whatever else that i'm meant to be like there as well
but i couldn't do that i don't want just randomness i want meaning!
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reader, Niema.x +, writes (15 April 2009):
aw hun!Listen to me , i felt exactly the same way i was like how will you just know what to do ?But believe me you do , its soemthing that you just act on. Your first kiss wont be anything special and youl probably feel like you screwed up but honestly guys dont notice . Make your first kiss short and jopefuly that will give you the confidence to kiss again for longer.Honestly, kissings one of those things , get the first one over and theres no stopping .Youl be fine :DGood luck and keep me posted hunni !xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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