A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: Hi, I am looking for some advice, I am a 24 year old female who has never had a boyfriend for various reasons, I have always concentrated on my job just trying to impress etc. plus I have never fallen for anyone and vice versa guy has never fancied me. However, I do split shifts and I have fallen for this guy who I only see now and again, we smile at each other and chat now and again, he asked me to his flat to watch a film and stay the night, I thought that was a bit strange because I am basically a stranger, anyway I have been finding out a lot about him and he seems like a bit of a player which is fine, I am actually flattered that he would like me in that way, the problem is there is a works night out and he asked if I was going, which I am, and he said he was thinking of going and I could go home with him, and I really want to do this because I have never had sex before and I am ready for it, I have been for years but I have just never found anyone, and I know that it will probably just be a one-off, but will he think I am easy if I do this and do you think he will be able to tell I am a virgin. Thanks for reading.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2008): Well, I can honestly say you are a smart girl for waiting so long and keeping your concentration on work. But just a question, are you sure you want your first to be with just any guy? I know you say your ready but he's just a guy that wants you to come over for that. But its up to you. And he might not know your a virgin, but this a big decision to make.
Good Luck Girl...
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