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anonymous
writes:My husband left me when I was three months pregnant and didn't come back home until 2 weeks before I have my first child. He has a drug problem and a hot temper. It is hard work getting along with him. I Recently found out i was pregnant again (my first child is only 6 months old) and he started be mean to me and starting a fight about everything and I mean petty stuff. This 2nd pregnancy was a shocker but this child is already loved so much by me. I just don't understand why my husband can't just love me and want our marriage to work. I'm I crazy for feeling this way?? What should I do?? We have been to marriage counseling but it failed and he refuses to go back. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): I don't know if this helps but my father sounds an awful lot like your husband. My parents got divorced when I was 2 years old and my brother was 5. I'm in highschool now and my father lives in another country and is remarried as is my mother. My point is some relationships can't work but in the end the kids will be alright... I mean I THINK I turned out ok :/
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): You need to first consider your children. You want to give them a loving, stable enviroment. If your husband isn't devoted to you and your children you can't force him to do something he doesn't want to. Only he can change his ways. Marriages fail and it doesn't mean you're a failure. Hang in there
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): get shot of him, you and the kids are way better off x
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): well if he treats you bad and you are afraid he might do something to you or your children, its time to end the marriage
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