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Need handjob advice!

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Question - (16 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 January 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey people,

Right, i'm really scared to give a guy a handjob because iv'e never gave one before. And I kind of know what to do but i don't at the same time, if you get me.

Do i go on my knees and do it? And what happens when he cums?

Please give advise :)

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A female reader, aunty_rach United Kingdom +, writes (16 January 2009):

you don't have to go on your knees, you can do it with him sitting next to you or laying down looking at eachother.

just simply rub his groin and then put your hand into his boxers and maybe suggest that he takes them off. once they are off just wrap your hand around his penis and start to stroke it up and down. start slow and build up speed. also when you get to the top circle the head with your thumb. also remember to give his balls attention too. just try different ways and have fun

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2009):

hi i posted this question a few months ago and am the same age as you :) it really is nothing to worry about!! i was so nervous before!! lol

when we did it, he was feeling my boobs to get hard, and when he did he pulled his boxers down and i just took it in my hands and all you have to do is move your hand up and down, thats it lol you dont have to go onto your knees when giving a hand job, but what ever is easier to you.

he told me its not good to SQUEEZE but when he gets closer to the end its good to go a bit firmer and quicker, just get him to let you know when he is ready.

the first time i also went on my knees and he put his penis between my boobs and i pleasured him that way which he loved.

i finished him off by hand and there was quite a bit ((he told me alot for him lol)) and it did go on his leg but most of it went on the floor (we were actually outside...long story...bit of a complicated relationship lol :S ...) he was holding me and touching my boobs all the time and he told me it was great.

ive now done it 3times, and the 3rd time he told me id got better although it was great the 1st time,, i supose the more you do it the easier it gets

hope this helps!! good luck

i know how you feel i searched and read loads of questions about it on here and honestly didnt believe it was that easy, i thought i had done it wrong after becuase there is really nothing to it!! lol

good luck x x x

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