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writes:Ok so im a 16 year old boy, and when i get in a sexual encounter with a girl (fore play, not sex), i get nauseous, soo bad that i sometimes have to run to the bathroom and throw up. Now its specific though, when i pleasure her its fine but when she pleasures me i get sick, which assures me that i'm not gay. I think its a paranoia problem, i do suffer from mild paranoia, and i think its related because when i was with this one girl at her house all alone, i didnt get sick, but when im with my now girlfriend in my basement and my parents are up stairs i get sick, so i think is nervous problems. will someone please help me, or relate with me, or just assure me that everythings ok, because this is ruining my life Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2008): Well anon, dont worry about it. Youre probably worried she might bite it off. The truth is she's just trying to something nice for you, like when she scratches your back when it's itchy or when she listens to you when your sad. I would suggest getting holding her jaws open just in case she gets too toothy. Or you might just find that you dont like blowjobs (ha ha ha) or els maybe you don't like girls, in which case, guys are probably better at it anyway. Its a short life, make the most of it. Don't worry too much about this.
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reader, hello1  +, writes (12 November 2007):
 Mental and you can't help it so you can say all you want about not wanting to be gay but if you are, you can't help it. It sounds from your question your like this with other girls you been with? not just this girl? I really think you need to do some soul searching, if your not gay then get some help for overcoming this.
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reader, faith scott boreanaz +, writes (12 November 2007):
 its a mental decision to be gay, are you sure you arent straight or bisexual because outimately i think its down to nerves. but being gay is 99% mental not a choice you can make.
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reader, faith scott boreanaz +, writes (12 November 2007):
This is probably because you really like this girl and your nervous about what she thinks of you or your nervous of getting caught in the act. I dont think your gay either so dont worry about that. the one common factor in all this is nerves, i know most people say "Dont worry" but that can be so annoying because you always do and so it means nothing.
As imbarressed as you may feel, go talk to a counsellor, this will help you get over your nerves. This problem is secretly common and everyone gets over it in the end, just like you will - sooner if you talk to someone. by the way me and one of my ex's had this problem, all the luck in the world, faith x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBut i dont want to be gay, is gay a decision or a mental thing?
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reader, hello1 +, writes (12 November 2007):
Maybe you are gay, maybe your hiding it so deep inside it's coming out in this way. There's nothing wrong with being gay.
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