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writes: ive recently been finding trusting my boyfriend really hard, because his always txn and flirting with other girls. Its making us argue more and i dont know how to deal with my insecurity. can anyone suggest any ideas
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2006): Agreed with Yos. It is not you who is insecure, he is. If he was secure (or happy with being with JUST you) he wouldn't need to text or flirt with other girls.
Don't let his insecurities make you become distrustful or insecure yourself.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (7 July 2006):
 Dump him?
Really. You owe it to yourself to be with someone who shows you respect. Staying in a relationship where you are not respected is bad for you on many levels. The only way you will get respect is to insist on it, which means not tolerating people who don't.
A boy who cannot stop flirting and texting other girls when he has a girlfriend is not capable of being in and sustaining a good relationship. No wonder you don't trust him, he's clearly not trustworthy. Either he changes NOW (and I mean no second chances...), or you leave him.
Don't compromise with him on this. All you will show him by compromising is that you are willing to be taken advantage of. Be strong.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2006): Has your boyfriend done anything in the past to make hard for you to trust him? to me its sounds your a bit insecure, (thats jst whay i get from what i read) , i wud say find the right time and instead of arguing try talking to him. Arguing dosnt tend to help but if you talk to him carmly letting him know how you feel and you dont like him flirting with other girls jst maybe he will understand and can reasure. If he start argument stay carm your self and walk away from it jst to let him carm down and let him come to you when he has, i hope this helps
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