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writes: hi im 18 and i really worried about my twin sister, she has now slept with 7 people all were one night stands and 6 out of them she has taken the morning after pill! its getting ridiculous she says it will never happen again but it keeps happening! lads usually take advantage when she's drunk and im worried about what she might have! And how bad is it to keep taking the morning after pill? Surely it must be doing damage?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2007): Don't judge her! she's 18 so what! probably just a phase! The most important thing you can do is not make her feel like less of a person because of it - this will only damage her self esteem and that will really make it into a problem!Condoms might be an idea though - perhaps buy her a pack, and if she going to have unprotected sex she's going to need to get tested!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2006): Find out some information about the morning after pill and stds. I believe that you shouldn't be taking the morning after pill more than once per cycle but certainly there are some suspicions in medical circles about taking it more than twice a year. I would do some homework and present her with some of the facts about what stds can be picked up and the damage that a too frequent use of the mornign after pill could cause on her organs and emotions.
I would arm yourself with the facts and talk to her and encourage her to talk to her doctor and to think about the information. Get some pamphlets from your doctor, visit some websites etc and get some information.
Her behaviour sounds a bit unhealthy and it sounds like she needs some information so she can make some healthier choices for her body and her mind.
Good luck
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reader, Rainee  +, writes (3 December 2006):
 Seeing as how you're 18, you both may have a certain right to privacy and doing what you want, but if your sister attempted suicide, would you stand idly by? Because what she is doing can be considered suicide - the STDS she's likely to pick up could kill her, and she's doing it to herself. You have an obligation to help her to a doctor and/or talking with your parents about what is happening, if not because she's your sibling, but because you love her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2006):
I really think she need to go into some kind of therapy to determine why she is doing this kind of self destructive behavior. She has to know what its only a matter of time before she picks up a disease and deep emotional scaring.
If she says that it will never happen again but somehow she cant stop it, he is a depper problem here. Now would be a good time to figure it out before she has 2 kids out of wedlock and herpes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2006): I really think you should tell your parents about this first and if they know already then shame on them for not talking to her about it. If I were you, force her to go to a doctor because her doing that can cause a lot of complications down the road- especially in terms of getting STDs and other medical problems. She may need to go to counceling too if she cant get past the point of casual sex she sounds like she is lacking integrity and intelligence. Its too unfortuante that she doesnt have other things to do with her time than seeking out random guys to feel better about her self. Sounds like she may need to work on her self confidence. Maybe have her join in on a hobby of yours- studies show that kids who are in volved in sports, music, clubs, hobbies, school etc are more likely to abstain from sex and in the long run have a higher salary and be more sucessful. Tell her inthe future that she may have to pay for her actions, and have a doctor explain it to her,or your parents. Hope this helps!
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