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writes:well ive been in a long distance relationship for 7 months and we hae been friends for 3 years but we see each other at least once every 2 weeks. she never showed any sign of cheating on me if i texted she would always text back always flashed my phone never changed her voice when we spoke always wanted me to come and visit her in her school. i wont lie she has never introduced to her friends but ive met her family most of it. she says she wants to make sure things are well btw us before she introduces me cause they will try to ruin it. she claims to be private and that couples dont last in her school.well one day she texted me to send her money. i did. i called her later she told me a boy that thats her friend claims to be her boyfriend wanted to take her out to have fun and eat before he leaves town then he drove her to his house and tryed to rape her. she got out and found a taxi and thats when my money came in and she got home. she gave me his number to tell him to stop calling her. when i did i started threatening him he called back telling me they were dating he sent me texts she sent to him. one was very physical and i have never been that far with her before. at the same time he was calling her a player to me and he was tellig her he loves her at my back. i showed her she sayed hes lying but its the way she typed it. ok i tryed to break up she talked me into coming back. i sayd she could leave if she wanted to but she didnt.since then she calls more but not that much and text less she seems distant to me i try to get intimate but she pushes me away im not trying to have sex cause she says shes a virgin and enjoys playing silly games with me. i love her but the distance is killing me i feel im losing her gradually when i tell her she says things are alright but i dont feel it is. she seems more distant than before. i dont know if she is using me cause i dont spend money on her foolishly trust me i feel ive done it all what do i do to keep her with me i dont wanna lose her my trust in her is fading away?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2008): yeah thanks ive supported her bout the rape its been 3 months. since it happend she dont wanna talk about it and i dont bring it up. its just i dont no if im to trust her or not. i love her i wont deny that but something dont feel rite and i wanna put my finger on it. some people say i should break up while others say i should i be patient. im afraid of breaking up and finding out she was innocent and i lost something beautiful while im also afraid of staying and living a lie thanks but i need more help....please!!! thank you
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (8 August 2008):
Could the reason she is acting strangely be something to do with the ATTEMPTED RAPE that she suffered?
Give the girl a break, she has been attacked, and then oyu have accused her of cheating.
I don't know if she was cheating or not but you have to give her some support to get over what happened. Then you can figure out whether you want to trust her or not.
Good Luck!! xx
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