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writes: My boyfriend is working in a gay bar although he is straight. During the day he works out at a local gym and he looks good.He says a lot of guys come on to him and admits he likes it. He says I am stupid to be jealous because he would never ever go with another guy and it's just part of the job.I have been to the bar a few times although not often as his boss doesn't like it and my boyfriend does definitelyflirt. He says it's harmless, it increases his tips and I have to trust him. I do but it's hard. Alexandra from Stockport, Greater Manchester
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reader, lisa_01  +, writes (5 April 2006):
 hi, i really don't think you have to much to worry about, i think your bf is just flirting a bit for the extra money and would not go any further with it,he is straight if he is with you, just thank you lucky stars he does'nt work for a normal bar and he was flirtng with females and not males, then you would have something to worry about.
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reader, bridget +, writes (4 April 2006):
 Hey there pet
Yes, I definately agree with d4uo4..
Innocent until proven guilty, and I think your boyfriend is just very good at his profession.
Of course you boyfriends boss wont like you going round your not a guy and It is a gay bar and its all money to the boss..
I dont think you have anything to worry about your boyfriend is perfectly straight if he has you..
I understand fully that it is hard but it is a basis on trust now and I know how you feel, my boyfriend works away quite a bit but I have learned to trust again.. I think you will know if you have the loosing kind..
Good Luck
Jacqueline
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reader, d4u04  +, writes (4 April 2006):
 I agree with your boyfriend my darling, I know it's hard but you do need to trust him until proved otherwise, trust is the basis of a relationship, no trust, no nothing x
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