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writes:last night i was have a convo with my boyfriend and i was asking him if he was eve going to cheat on me please tell me so i can stop wawating our times?i know i dont have the best past but nor does anyone else he told me i wish i could just get even with you but i know you wouldnt be here in the end that made me sooo upset and i have a two month old baby with him i told him you cant have your cake and eat it too.then later i comme to find out when i was 8 months pregant with "his child" i was in the next room sleeping but other then he knew i was wide awake.my step sister her boyfriend kicked her out that day and she came home and i helped her unpack and everything and i was wonndering all the time they started hanging out alot when i went to sleep that night i went to sleep around 11:00 and i was in and out of sleep because he wasnt by my side dont you think he would be??that night her room was wuite dont oyu think if you were talking or playing games you would be able to hear??? then he came in around 1:00 a.m then the next day i asked him what did ya guys talk about last night? he said all what she could talk about was her ex breaking up with her then last night he told me that night they were watchiong family guy and she put her head by his arm pit and she put her leg on his and then kept moving it up and shes like is this your penis is it hard? is this worng? then (he) said "yes" then moved her leg down but did not completely take it off dont you think if your pregnant girl is sleeping in the next room you would tell her sister this is wrong i need to be with my girlfriend? i just wonnder why didnt you tell me i told him hes like i was high i forgot im like okay just like blame it on the drink nope blame it on the drugs then i called her and shes like if i didn i forgot im pissed im going to go i love you bye ever since that i have been crying so upster it feels like they stomped on my heart and showed it to me the one person i thought i could trust turned their back on me
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2011): They are both untrustworthy, but on the other hand, your boyfriend DID tell you what she did..He didnt really do much in the way of stopping it, which is where his untrustworthiness comes in, but at least he freely admitted what went on. I dont necessarily believe that he is a big cheater, I think his indescretions are mostly drink/drug induced, while hers is out and out scandalous, with intent to horn up on your man.
Either way, move on, from the both of them. As much as it hurts, you can be rest assured that you will most likely find yourself in this situation yet again in the near future with the two of them.
Oh yes, one more thing- Its not your fault. So dont let them make you feel like it is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2011): Of course you should leave him. There's no need to keep getting hurt by this guy. You know his true colors so don't stay with him. And for your stepsister, she knew what she was doing so there's no excuse for her. Dump him, move on and watch your back when around your sister. Hope I helped.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (9 July 2011):
 Wholey Moley there is a lot going on here. Personally I could never again trust my sister or boyfriend after that happening behind my back. I think his excuses are crap no one gets so drunk or high that they don't know when they are doing something wrong. I really have to question his level of committment to you in doing this. Also do you think it's wise to bring a baby into this kind of volitile situation? Maybe you should adopt it out??
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