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writes: My sister has a boyfriend and everyone (including me) thinks they are the best couple. They’ve never had an argument, not once.But yesterday, her crush told me that he’s tired of his girlfriend and asked me to go out with him. Of course, I’ll never betray my sister. When I told my sister that guy isn’t honest to her. She just said she didn’t believe and thought that I’m jealous of her. So, what am I supposed to do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2007): Welll you know its jsut sad that your sister is in DENIAL!!! She just has to not believe yoiu and then she'll finally come to her sences and beleive you. So jsut be pacient and wait for your sister to come around. Or find a way to like record or take a picture of how the unfaithful "boyfriend" is being unfaithful. But otherwise that you'll jsut have to wait for your sister to come around.
Good Luck...
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reader, becky05 +, writes (8 July 2005):
Im sorry your sister didnt believe you.If this man is going to be unfaithful to her, she will just have to find out in her own time.be there for her when this happens and dont say 'i told you so'.
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reader, NordicBeauty +, writes (8 July 2005):
It's obvious your sister is in DENIAL of the truth.
She really cares about her boyfriend & is SHOCKED to learn that he is interested in you...she cannot accept it.
Give her time...ignore her accusations of being jealous.
Rise above the situation...let her boyfriend know DIRECTLY that you will never date him & you will never betray your sister...when you confront him...have a witness...one of your friends, or one of your sister's friends.
They will testify to your sister about the confrontation.
In time, your sister will realize that her relationship with her boyfriend is NOT PERFECT & she must choose what to do.
Also, the fact that her boyfriend would have the nerve to ask you out, proves he is not the most decent fellow.
There is an old saying..."divide and conquer"
He is causing division between sisters just so he can enjoy another conquest...that is WRONG !
If he has lost interest in your sister...tell him to move his hunting territory to another location...outside the boundaries of your family !
All the best,
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